it looks like its just a fuse rather than a relay which is located on the passenger side inside the car i beleave behind the glovebox.
should be alittle group of 6 fuses butched together in a square on the bottom right hand corner,
dipped beam fuse is No 142 (second one down on right) and 143 (third one down on right)(bottom left fuse).
just give them a check over mate.
hope this helps you.